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It doesn’t matter who you are, who you know or how much

money you have, when you contact me for the first time I will 

screen you. I screen all my clients in order to protect myself

from unsavory clients who have abusive histories and other

reasons.I may screen you in several ways. I can do a  more 

extensive check asking that you provive me with your home

address, real name, occupation, phone number and other details 

to help me determine if you are really who you say you are and

whether I should honor your appointment with me or not.I may

do online checks using your name, checking to see if you really

work for the company you claim to and live where you told me 

you do. Sometimes, I may  ask for your  online identity to look

for reviews from other escorts about experiences they may have

had with you. Many times, I may ask you about previous escorts 

you've seen,  and I will double-check with them about any

behavior to worry about. You have no need to get defensive and

afraid to reveal details about your personal live. Privacy and

discretion is my #1 piority. I am not looking to snoop into your private life; I am simply trying to get a handle on whether you are a safe client to trust or not.

Because the screening part is necessary for you to obtain an appointment with me, it’s best to cooperate with the process the best that you can. Here are a few ways you can help me screen you before an appointment:

  • Always tell the truth. The last thing you want to be caught doing with me is lying. I am excellent at reading people; I have to be to survive in the business. I can usually tell when you’re not telling the truth. Don’t lie about your age, appearance, occupation, etc. I use that information you give me to check out whether you are a safety risk or not. I am accustomed to seeing  established clients and know they are not going to harm her. However, I need all available information from a new client (you) to confirm that you are not a threat. When you give me false information, you are giving me reason to think you are hiding something.I will cancel your appoiontment immediately when I discover that you’ve been lying to me. If I don’t cancel your appointment, I may have to reschedule it due to my screening process taking longer as a result of false information.

  • Avoid getting defensive. When I ask you questions, I am not trying to pry or to leverage information for any other purpose other than to check out whether it’s safe to book an appointment with you. Getting defensive and giving vague or incomplete answers indicates to me that you may hiding something. This puts up big red flags for me  and leaves me considering canceling your appointment. Getting defensive is only going to delay or stop the screening process. It’s best to suck it up and deliver information openly. If you do, this will probably be the last time I will ask you to open up about your private life. Any other details you share afterward will be on your accord.

  • Don’t hide details that will help me find out information about you. If you’ve had a run-in with the law, and you are afraid that I may find out about it, tell me up front. Provide details that may help me discover that you’re telling the truth about who you are. Often, a client will knowingly give  a nickname or title that is difficult to find or differentiate. (Robert Jones might give his name as Bobby Lee Jones, even though he regularly goes by Robert professionally.) Be as open as you can about the details you provide to me so I can easily move through the screening process.

  • Be sure you want to book an appointment when you call. When you book an appointment for the first time with me, I am going to ask you questions to ensure you are who you claim to be. If you’re not sure you want to book an encounter in the first place, or don’t want to go through the screening process enough to have an appointment, don’t waste my time. If you call me to set up an appointment, and then you back out as I begin asking for information, I will most likely block you from future communications. If you haven’t fully sold yourself on booking an appointment, hold off until you’re fully ready.

  • Don’t be secretive when asked for information. Balking at giving information to me will only cause you troubleI fully understand that you don’t want the entire world (or your family and friends) to know you’re booking an appointment with any escort. However, I need some information from you to ensure I'm not putting myself at risk. Being secretive can cause me to think you’re hiding something or it will delay the process of screening you. It’s okay to express that you’re a bit hesitant to give full disclosure about yourself. However, you’re going to have to reveal some information. Perhaps, after telling me you’re a little afraid to share too much, I will be able to work with you to get enough information to check you out, without you feeling like you’ve divulged your full identity to me.

  • Answer my questions. The screening process will proceed much more quickly and painlessly if you simply answer the questions that I ask. Don’t interject additional information; if I need it, I will ask for it. Provide clear, concise answers to my questions. Don’t ask me why I need to know the information. Don’t dance around my questions with half-answers. Fully answer my questions with true answers and get ready for your appointment.

  • Follow directions. I screen clients by eye-balling them before they arrive for an appointment. For instance, I may ask you to walk a block to my incall. As you walk, I may be able to view you from my incall window. If you fail to follow my instructions, I will assume you are trying to sneak in or put one over on me. I will call off an appointment with clients who fail to follow my instructions about arriving at my incalls. Trust that my instructions have purpose and follow them.

  • Please give me ample time to screen you. Some clients get too antsy and push me to screen them too quickly. I am not persuaded to hurry my screening checks. And, I will become suspicious of clients who expect me to. Be patient and allow me to do my job properly. You wouldn’t expect to hire an assistant without first checking a resume and calling references. I will need some  time to check you out. Getting too anxious could blow the entire appointment.

  • Use your real name. I double-check my clients when we are meeting at a Location. When you arrive at a location and reserve your room, do so under your real name. I regularly will call a hotel and ask for your name. If I am  told that no guest is there by that name, I will suspect that something fishy is going on and pull the plug on the appointment. Using your name on the hotel register doesn’t jeopardize your relationship with family or friends, especially when you leave no other paper trail. (Don’t use your credit or debit card; pay in cash.)

  • Show your ID if asked. When you arrive for an appointment the first time with me, it’s not uncommon that I ask immediately to see your identification. Have your driver’s license or other identification ready for her to see, if asked. Refusing to show your identification makes me think that you are hiding something from me, which puts up red flags telling me to leave. Openly show your picture ID so that I know you are who you claim to be.

  • Realize that my safety are at stake unless I screen my clients properly. Cut me some slack if I seems a bit OCD when I'm going through my screening questions(LOL). My safety may have been compromised in the past due to lax screening procedures. I am also be keeping your reputation intact by my careful screening tactics.

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